Atlanta tragedy, and on being an Asian American woman today
Guess what: I still sweat a little every time I speak up in a group. This is because as an Asian American woman, I’ve never belonged in any room.
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Ketchup Pasta Sauce
Dinner was an array of mismatched ceramic ware, flanked by the rice cooker in the corner. It was a permanent fixture in the dining room that we never used, because even twenty steps from the stovetop felt too far removed from the food.
There’s a right way to ask for help
This is the second post in a two-part series titled “How to say you’re busy.”
Three different states of “busy”
This is the first post in a two-part series titled “How to say you’re busy.”
I’ve been a designer, caterer, and product manager. I’ve never stopped coding.
I taught myself every “How to write HTML” tutorial from Webmonkey and experimented ruthlessly on my little webpages hosted in Geocities’ Sunset Boulevard. AOL dial-up brought the world wide web to my sleepy suburban household and I was hooked.
Dream Jobs Are Nubby
They don’t have sharp edges and clearly defined silhouettes. They slip and slide between vocations, and inhabit the hidden crevices of all of them.
How I Use 750 Words to Write Daily-ish
If you’re trying to start a writing habit, you have to try 750Words.com.
“Why don’t you work for yourself?”
This is the third installment in a three-part post on leaving a career I loved, choosing to be unemployed for an arbitrary period of time, and indulging in a heck of a lot of tea and think-time.
“Why don’t you focus on just one thing?”
This is the second installment in a three-part post on leaving a career I loved, choosing to be unemployed for an arbitrary period of time, and indulging in a heck of a lot of tea and think-time.
"Why don’t you take some time off?"
This is the first installment in a three-part post on leaving a career I loved, choosing to be unemployed for an arbitrary period of time, and indulging in a heck of a lot of tea and think-time.
How to Start a Blog: A Guide for Procrastinators
I made a promise to myself that I wouldn’t publish any of these posts until I was sure I could keep the habit up: either a continuous streak of four months, or a series of eight polished posts that I was excited to publish.
How to Care About Everything
The biggest part of loving your job is caring about what you do. Being present. It’s on you to stay interested enough to avoid zoning out on conference calls.